I haven’t been tagged to do a meme in forever it seems, but now I have so here it goes…
What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Taking a long walk or a bike ride and then Lying in the grass on a cool spring or fall day (or in the shade on a hot day) reading a good book with someone who makes you smile.
What is your greatest fear?
Fears change over time, so it is impossible to have a single “greatest fear”. But frequently my greatest fear is that I cannot play political mind games well or that I will die in some spectacular crash before I’m ready.
Which historical figure do you most identify with?
Historical? I’ll have to come back to you on that.
Which living person do you most admire?
My parents. Who are two people… but to me they are one.
What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?
I’m pretty stubborn sometimes to my detriment and I don’t like to be told what to do.
What is the trait you most deplore in others?
It is tempting just to list the seven deadly sins here, but I’m going to go with Liars. I really can’t stand dishonesty and backstabbing SOBs.
What is your greatest extravagance?
Fluevog shoes, d’uh. Well, that and alternative methods of getting pregnant. All women should be so privileged as to have access to these two things, they are among our greatest liberators.
On what occasion do you lie?
I’m more likely to purposely omit telling you something than to actually lie outright. I hate lying. Actually, really, the only major lies I’ve ever told were to my parents when I was a teenager/young adult. And then I did it to protect my privacy/because I thought they’d be embarrassed or upset with me if they knew the truth.
What do you dislike most about your appearance?
I could do with some toning.
When and where were you happiest?
Wow, mostly when I was living in the various places I’ve lived in outside of my home country. And pretty much every single day I’ve lived since I graduated from high school. The day I was conferred with a PhD was a major highlight, too.
If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?
I’d have children of my own.
If you could change one thing about your family what would it be?
We’d all live closer to one another. I miss them.
What do you consider your greatest achievement?
The Ph.D.
If you died and came back as a person or a thing what do you think it would be?
Well, I’d have to believe in reincarnation first. I’d be some kind of beautiful colourful bird — a parrot, I think.
What is your most treasured possession?
hmmmm… again, a number of options … a) my yellow blanket (which is my version of Linus’s blanket), b) my dollhouse (first thing I bought with my own $$), c) my Afghan carpets, d) my Fluevogs (esp my Ivans), e) literacy, f) my Ph.D.
I could go on and on.
What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?
I have to divide this into two types of misery. Emotional Miseries: Depression*, mourning, heart break. Practical miseries: poverty, slavery, forced marriage, genital mutilation.
*By this I don’t mean it flippantly. There is a history of deep real unimaginable to most depression in my family and watching those members who suffer from this has given me a great appreciation for what this word really means. I do not use it lightly, ever.
Who are your heroes in real life?
Anyone who gets by on $1/day.
What is it that you most dislike?
Lying and dishonesty.
How would you like to die?
I don’t even want to think about this. I have so much living left to do.
What is your motto?
If at first you don’t succeed, try try again.


